20120526 Frank Gossett


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Frank Gossett 

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Frank Edwin Gossett CHARLOTTE - Frank Edwin Gossett, age 83, died unexpectedly at his home on May 26, 2012. He was born September 28, 1928 in Asheville, NC, the son of Florence Tucker Gossett and Frank David Gossett. Frank was married to Joyce Jefferson Gossett for 61 years. They met in the fifth grade at Eastover Elementary. He is survived by Joyce and their three daughters, Cathleen Dow and her husband Rob, Patti Heller and her husband Jim, Jean Gossett; six grandchildren, Donald Ryder Witter IV and his wife Laura, Edwin Graham Witter, Alexandra Gossett Dow, Robert Tucker Dow and twins, Kaitlin Joyce and John Thomas Walakovits; and also his brother, David Norman Gossett and his wife Shirley. He is also survived by his "best buddy" Winston, his beloved Corgi. Frank attended Central High School in Charlotte and lettered in basketball and baseball. He graduated from the University of North Carolina in 1950 with a BS Degree in Commerce. While at Carolina he played on the 1947 Freshman Basketball Team and was president of the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity. The Carolina Tar Heels and ACC basketball remained a huge passion in his life. Frank joined Pilot Life Insurance Company (now Lincoln Financial) in 1953 and remained with them for 58 years, serving as an agent and then agency manager. In the industry he was a Chartered Life Underwriter, a Life and Qualifying member of the Million Dollar Round Table, a past president of the Charlotte Chapter of the General Agents and Managers Association and a past president of the Charlotte Estate Planning Council. He received the 1989 "Agent of the Year" award for the Charlotte Association of Insurance and Financial Advisors and was awarded the W. H. Andrews Award from Jefferson Pilot Financial in 1991. Frank was very active in his community serving as a past president of the Charlotte Jaycees and was selected one of the "Ten Outstanding Young Men" in 1964, 1965 and 1966. He was a past president of the Charlotte Sportsman's Club and a past chairman of the board of the Heart Association. An avid and accomplished golfer, he played in the 1991 U. S. Senior Amateur Golf Championship. He was a past president of Myers Park Country Club and a current member of Quail Hollow Country Club. Frank was an active member of Myers Park United Methodist Church and had been a member since 1938. He served as chairman of the Administrative Board and was a cofounding member of the Ownbey Sunday School Class. A service to celebrate Frank's life will be held at Myers Park United Methodist Church at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, June 4, 2012, with a reception following in Jubilee Hall. Memorials may be made to Myers Park United Methodist Church, 1501 Queens Road, Charlotte, NC 28207. The family wishes to extend a special thank you to all the emergency responders. Condolences may be offered at www.HarryandBryantFuneralHome.com.
Published in Charlotte Observer from May 28 to May 30, 2012
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20120527 Reatha Update

Dear Ownbey Family,


CONCERNS
Those of us at church today were shocked to learn that FRANK GOSSETT suffered a massive heart attack yest'y morning while working in his backyard and died.  With the church being closed tomorrow, i'm not sure when any updates will be posted on the church website, but will let you know funeral plans as soon as i hear something. Syd told those of us who are not charter class members that Frank was our class' FIRST president, back in the early 1950s  :-) We send our prayers out to JOYCE and their family. Joyce Gossett
JOYS: 1.  ANN COPELAND returned to church today -- to both CITR and Ownbey Class  :-)    When i recognized her in class during my H&H report, she received applause.  Welcome back, Anne! 2.  CAROL NEEDY has a new grandson!  CATHERINE and RICHARD GIBBS have adopted BLAKE whose 9th b'day was today.  And CHRISTIAN is THRILLED to have a "big" brother -- just one year older than himself.  Congrats all around! 3.  HARRIETTE and SYD were back from Indiana where they attended the graduation (HS?) of granddaughter Alice(?).  [we have met Alice before when she visited w/her mom, Harriett Moore... so that's why i'm guessing at the name and type of grad'n, relying on my iffy memory...]   4.  And if all goes well, HARRIETTE will be in San Diego next weekend to run her 14th marathon out there.  BRENNY will be running as well -- SYDNOR III WON'T be participating this year due to his training for his pending deployment to Afghanistan for a year.
LESSONS: 1.  We enjoyed ACE's opening presentation today of N.T.Wright's book, SIMPLY JESUS, and had some lively discussion.  We will explore more of the book (and some of the questions raised today) in coming months. 2.  DURWARD alluded to his upcoming lesson re Heaven in a question he had for Ace today.  In fact, Durward will be leading our lesson NEXT Sunday on that very topic.
MISC: I've taken ANNE LUMADUE's suggestion about getting cards for homebound or long-absent members to fruition.  Today i brought 3 cards for ELLEN CHASON, JANE PIXLEY, and DOTTIE TOBIAS for folks to sign.  I plan on bringing in 3 more cards next week for another group of our friends.  I'll have them on the table at the back of the room for you to sign. Have a blessed week, Reatha - Sun - 9pm

20120527 Ace discusses

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Jim started class with a prayer and reading from Jesus Calling.
Bob lead us in  the singing of hymns 500  and 420, Breathe on me breath of life..

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We had the largest crowd in a while at 27 (whereas the sanctuary was sparse). Harriette runs the San Diego Marathon for the 14th time one week from today. She has raised over $100,000 for charity doing this.  Reatha said there were cards to sign at back of room  for some of our class mates.We had a great trip to Levine Museum Saturday the 5/26 (thank you Durward) and seeing the regular display of the growth of Charlotte and the New South plus the Jewish life display on 10 folks living in Charlotte and their connection with the holocaust. Also there was a display of the 100th anniversary of the local Bar (Lawyers) Association. Several  class and Church members were in various displays including Ace, Sydnor, and Ken Garfield. (See pictures for some of their pictures.) We learned that class member Frank Gossett had a heart attack yesterday and passed away. He was doing yard work. He had been ill with cancer for a few years.Funeral Monday at 2 Pm in Sanctuary  3/4/12. We always appreciated his financial assistance to the class.  The Men in Christ BBQ last Sunday night had a great speaker. Sign up for Wednesday June 13 6 p/m at Charlotte Cafe with $250!  Please make a note of the Adult Plus outing ($5) to Lake Norman to Rev and Anita McIntosh is June 13, Wednesday (same day as the Charlotte cafe social.)  Melvin and Anita have been the host for this event for over 10 years and we thank them for their hospitality. (Later)Here is a link to pictures from 2002. Also there is an Adult plus day trip to Blowing Rock ($30) on August 15 (Wednesday).
Reatha mentioned cards were on table in back of room to sign for some of our members.
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This Week (05/27/2012)

The lesson 5/27 week: Ace discussed the Roger Williams book Simply Jesus. Ace will do the book in three parts, and the first today was the historical Jesus. Here is a review on Amazon: Simply put, I found "Simply Jesus" quite hard to put down. Author N. T. Wright has a way of making the book's chapters interesting, informative, clear and meaningful. For example:
1. He is great with metaphors, such as his repeated use of the 1991 "perfect storm" (the one that eventually became the topic for a successful book and movie). 2. He does a great job putting events in context. For example, through extensive citations of Old Testament passages, together with a description of the conditions of the Jews during the Roman occupation before Jesus arrived, he explains what the Jewish people were expecting from God. 3. Throughout the book Wright jumps around in time in a way that helps the reader connect events that sometimes occurred over centuries. 4. He writes in a way that helps the reader visualize important events as if watching a 3-D movie, such as when Jesus rode into Jerusalem on the back of a donkey.
One last thing. Although the book is of m   . . . .more


(from Reatha from Ace before class) Dear Ownbey Family, Note from our discussion leader...
This Sunday we will be discussing N.T.Wright's recent book, SIMPLY JESUS.  Please be thinking about the following questions in preparation for that discussion:
1.  Who was Jesus of Nazareth? 2.  What do you think Jesus of Nazareth thought about his own role/mission/vocation? 3.  Wright says that Jesus was caught up in the midst of a "perfect storm."  What do you think he means by that? 4.  Jesus directed us to pray "Thy Kingdom come on earth as it is in Heaven."  What did He consider the "Kingdom of God" to be?  ...or be like?
See you Sunday. Ace

This Sunday MAY mark the return of Ann Copeland to class.  We certainly hope so, but don't want her to push herself if she's not quite up to it.

Harriette and Syd will be traveling to the graduation of one of their g'daughters (i think that's right) this weekend, and the following week, Harriette will return to San Diego to run yet another marathon!  Her 14th -- did i remember the correct number?
 

This Sunday is Pentacost.  Wear some red!
Peace, Reatha - Fri - 7:10pm


Future Lessons, Link to Lessons on Official Web Page
27th - TBA - led by Ace  - Roger Williams book Simply Jesus
JUNE 3d - (bk) IS THERE A HEAVEN? - led by Durward
10th - (bk) THE SEARCH FOR MEANING, by Willimon, et al. - led by Sydnor
17th - Ethics - led by Chick
24th - TBA - led by Jim
JULY 1st - Annual Poetry Lesson - led by Bob and Don
8th - ???
15th - ???
22d - ???
29th - TBA - led by Sydnor
AUG 5th - TBA - led by Cal


 Last Week (05/20/2012)
Jim started class with a prayer and reading from Jesus Calling which fitted in with Reatha's lesson.
Bob lead us in  the singing of hymns 378 and 377.

hymn378-20120520-0954-Amazing Grace.MP3  and
hymn377-20120520-0943-peace like a River.MP3  

Harriette runs the San Diego Marathon for the 14th time 2 weeks from today. She has raised over $100,000 for charity doing this.  (Their son Sydnor is going to Afghanistan for a year to serve as a Chaplain. leaving June 9.) Sign up for Wednesday June 13 6 p/m at Charlotte Cafe with $250! Next Saturday bus riders will meet at 9 a/m and leave Church at 9:15 a/m on May 26 for the Museum trip down town. Museum opens at 10 a/m, and Durward will be there with the tickets. Keep in mind it is Speed Week. If not driving, meet at church by 9 or down town at time the bus arrives. (Note: parking next door in 7th Street Lot convenient; not sure how will be during Speed Week). Mary Katherine and Don R mentioned the Nova Voce concert later today (5/20)and the one last night. Links here
20120519 Nova Voce With Mary Katherine.    Men in Christ BBQ tonight Sunday night ($7) for Mens Group at 6 p/m. Please make a note of the Adult Plus outing ($5) to Lake Norman to Rev and Anita McIntosh is June 13, Wednesday (same day as the Charlotte cafe social.)  Melvin and Anita have been the host for this event for over 10 years and we thank them for their hospitality. Here is a link to pictures from 2002. Also there is an Adult plus day trip to Blowing Rock ($30) on August 15 (Wednesday). In answer to a question, Reatha said after this week she will take care of getting the cards discussed earlier.

Durward reports:C.S.Lewis wrote the novel THE SCREWTAPE LETTERS, and now this great Christian work has found its way onstage.  This wickedly funny and deeply inspiring adaptation will change the way you think about how demons and angels influence your everyday life. It will be presented in Charlotte for 3 performances at the Knight Theater.  If we have 10 or more wanting to attend, Durward can get tickets for $36.25/per.  That includes all fees and is for the 4pm performance on Sat, June 30th. Please call him to reserve spaces or ask questions.

The lesson was a  continuation of the  Study of Romans (8:1-11) - lesson #6, Living in the Spirit - led by Reatha Romans 8:1-11 (King James Version): 8 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. 3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: 4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. 5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. 7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. 8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.  9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his. 10 And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. 11 But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.

Last Week (05/13/2012) Jim and Nancy welcomed back from 4,000 mile trip to Nova Scotia. Jim started class with a prayer and a reading from the Jesus Calling book; "do not worry about tomorrow, this is not a suggestion, it is a command. . . ." Durward said we will leave Church at 9 a/m on May 26 for the Museum trip down town. Mary Katherine mentioned Nova Voce Women's Choral Concert next Saturday and Sunday at St Patrick Church in Dillworth ($15). Melody Makers at Adults Plus Wednesday 5/16 ($5) from Mathews at 10:30 . Men in Christ BBQ next Sunday night ($7). Lou and Martha led us in singing Hymns 314 (I come to the Garden_and He walks with me and he talks with me) and 348 (Softly and Tenderly Jesus is calling).

Please make a not that the Adult Plus outing ($5) to Lake Norman to Rev and Anita McIntosh is June 13, Wednesday. Melvin and Anita have been the host for this event for over 10 years and we thank them for their hospitality. Here is a link to pictures from 2002. Also there is an Adult plus day trip to Blowing Rock ($30) on August 15 (Wednesday).

In discussing the nature of future lessons, Don H said various DVDs are available, and he wanted to try one with us today. It is 6 parts; we did part 1. Subject was "Embracing Emerging Christianity" by Phyllis Tickle. Each part consists of 15 minute discussion on subjects followed by small group discussion. After the lesson Don H asked what we thought of it and he encouraged us to give him feedback. One idea was to let the Curriculum Committee study and make a recommendation for use of DVDs. (NOTE TO DON HAMMER: please let me have any editing you want for these notes, thanks, don.)
 

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Birthdays to remember: Click for Addresses
05/31 Witherington Jr. Ben
06/07 Stanford Madeleine
06/10 Hauersperger Genie
06/12 Maxwell Ann
06/16 Ownbey Richard L
06/16 Gage Gaston
06/20 Copeland Ann
06/29 Barden Barbara
07/11 Sadri Fred
07/19 Walker Ace

20120524 Traffic congestion near MPUMC for the VP What's his name?

20120526 Reatha Uodate, Simply Jesus coming

Dear Ownbey Family,


Note from our discussion leader...
This Sunday we will be discussing N.T.Wright's recent book, SIMPLY JESUS.  Please be thinking about the following questions in preparation for that discussion:
1.  Who was Jesus of Nazareth?
2.  What do you think Jesus of Nazareth thought about his own role/mission/vocation?
3.  Wright says that Jesus was caught up in the midst of a "perfect storm."  What do you think he means by that?
4.  Jesus directed us to pray "Thy Kingdom come on earth as it is in Heaven."  What did He consider the "Kingdom of God" to be?  ...or be like?

See you Sunday.
Ace


This Sunday MAY mark the return of Ann Copeland to class.  We certainly hope so, but don't want her to push herself if she's not quite up to it.


Harriette and Syd will be traveling to the graduation of one of their g'daughters (i think that's right) this weekend, and the following week, Harriette will return to San Diego to run yet another marathon!  Her 14th -- did i remember the correct number?


This Sunday is Pentacost.  Wear some red!


Peace,
Reatha - Fri - 7:10pm

20120520 Men in Christ


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20120520 Reatha continues Romans

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Please help edit your area of responsibility. Thanks.don
Blog Pictures Audio: Today's Class (if over) or Messiah
http://www.donredding.com/audio/hymn000-messiah.MP3

This Week (05/20/2012)

Jim started class with a prayer and reading from Jesus Calling which fitted in with Reatha's lesson.
Bob lead us in  the singing of hymns 378 and 377.

hymn378-20120520-0954-Amazing Grace.MP3  and
hymn377-20120520-0943-peace like a River.MP3   

Harriette runs the San Diego Marathon for the 14th time 2 weeks from today. She has raised over $100,000 for charity doing this.  (Their son Sydnor is going to Afghanistan for a year to serve as a Chaplain. leaving June 9.) Sign up for Wednesday June 13 6 p/m at Charlotte Cafe with $250! The 10 riders will meet at 9:15 a/m and leave Church at 9:30 a/m on May 26 Saturday for the Museum trip down town. Museum opens at 10 a/m, and Durward will be there with the tickets. Keep in mind it is Speed Week.  (Note: parking next door in 7th Street Lot convenient; not sure how will be during Speed Week). Mary Katherine and Don R mentioned the Nova Voce concert later today (5/20)and the one last night. Links here
20120519 Nova Voce With Mary Katherine.    Men in Christ BBQ tonight Sunday night ($7) for Mens Group at 6 p/m. Please make a note of the Adult Plus outing ($5) to Lake Norman to Rev and Anita McIntosh is June 13, Wednesday (same day as the Charlotte cafe social.)  Melvin and Anita have been the host for this event for over 10 years and we thank them for their hospitality. Here is a link to pictures from 2002. Also there is an Adult plus day trip to Blowing Rock ($30) on August 15 (Wednesday). In answer to a question, Reatha said after this week she will take care of getting the cards discussed earlier.

Durward reports:C.S.Lewis wrote the novel THE SCREWTAPE LETTERS, and now this great Christian work has found its way onstage.  This wickedly funny and deeply inspiring adaptation will change the way you think about how demons and angels influence your everyday life. It will be presented in Charlotte for 3 performances at the Knight Theater.  If we have 10 or more wanting to attend, Durward can get tickets for $36.25/per.  That includes all fees and is for the 4pm performance on Sat, June 30th. Please call him to reserve spaces or ask questions.

The lesson was a  continuation of the  Study of Romans (8:1-11) - lesson #6, Living in the Spirit - led by Reatha Romans 8:1-11 (King James Version):
8 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.
3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
10 And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
11 But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.

The lesson next week: Ace will discuss Roger Williams book  Simply Jesus. Here is a review on Amazon:

Simply put, I found "Simply Jesus" quite hard to put down. Author N. T. Wright has a way of making the book's chapters interesting, informative, clear and meaningful. For example:
1. He is great with metaphors, such as his repeated use of the 1991 "perfect storm" (the one that eventually became the topic for a successful book and movie).
2. He does a great job putting events in context. For example, through extensive citations of Old Testament passages, together with a description of the conditions of the Jews during the Roman occupation before Jesus arrived, he explains what the Jewish people were expecting from God.
3. Throughout the book Wright jumps around in time in a way that helps the reader connect events that sometimes occurred over centuries.
4. He writes in a way that helps the reader visualize important events as if watching a 3-D movie, such as when Jesus rode into Jerusalem on the back of a donkey.
One last thing. Although the book is of m   . . . .more


Last Week (05/13/2012) Jim and Nancy welcomed back from 4,000 mile trip to Nova Scotia. Jim started class with a prayer and a reading from the Jesus Calling book; "do not worry about tomorrow, this is not a suggestion, it is a command. . . ." Durward said we will leave Church at 9 a/m on May 26 for the Museum trip down town. Mary Katherine mentioned Nova Voce Women's Choral Concert next Saturday and Sunday at St Patrick Church in Dillworth ($15). Melody Makers at Adults Plus Wednesday 5/16 ($5) from Mathews at 10:30 . Men in Christ BBQ next Sunday night ($7). Lou and Martha led us in singing Hymns 314 (I come to the Garden_and He walks with me and he talks with me) and 348 (Softly and Tenderly Jesus is calling).

Please make a not that the Adult Plus outing ($5) to Lake Norman to Rev and Anita McIntosh is June 13, Wednesday. Melvin and Anita have been the host for this event for over 10 years and we thank them for their hospitality. Here is a link to pictures from 2002. Also there is an Adult plus day trip to Blowing Rock ($30) on August 15 (Wednesday).

In discussing the nature of future lessons, Don H said various DVDs are available, and he wanted to try one with us today. It is 6 parts; we did part 1. Subject was "Embracing Emerging Christianity" by Phyllis Tickle. Each part consists of 15 minute discussion on subjects followed by small group discussion. After the lesson Don H asked what we thought of it and he encouraged us to give him feedback. One idea was to let the Curriculum Committee study and make a recommendation for use of DVDs. (NOTE TO DON HAMMER: please let me have any editing you want for these notes, thanks, don.)
 

Future Lessons Link to Lessons on Official Web Page 



27th - TBA - led by Ace  - Roger Williams book  Simply Jesus
JUNE 3d - (bk) IS THERE A HEAVEN? - led by Durward
10th - (bk) THE SEARCH FOR MEANING, by Willimon, et al. - led by Sydnor
17th - Ethics - led by Chick
24th - TBA - led by Jim
JULY 1st - Annual Poetry Lesson - led by Bob and Don
8th - ???
15th - ???
22d - ???
29th - TBA - led by Sydnor
AUG 5th - TBA - led by Cal
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