Bible, Love and Forgiveness
Revised June 33, 2013
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- Bible Words: - In our
Bible, I wish Jesus or God (or any person!) said to a
person ( or any person said it was said) "I love
you" or "I forgive you." What a great example it would
have been if Jesus said to Judas "I love you" or "I
forgive you." Christianity is based on these two
concepts, and I am sorry not to see it said in the
Bible. I hope I am wrong and you will show me where
these statement are in the Bible. There are a few
instances where people tell God (and maybe Jesus) they love
them, but I am talking about individuals or even groups of
people being told the specific words, "I love you.". For
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Having said that, there is one instance in the Bible where God is said to have said "I love you.." Locate that instance and view the other comments below and tell me what you think.
I am not saying that the Bible suggests that no one in the Bible loves each other, I am just saying no one seemed to think it important to say that to anyone. We are told to tell our children often we love them, and talk shows make a point of neglected children never being told that. God and Jesus were good to us and that is supposed to prove they love us, but how often have we heard that people shower their children with gifts but don't show them love - or say it.
- Nowhere in the Bible is it said to a human "I love you, "I forgive you" "thank you," "you are welcome (well, one time)", or "I am sorry."
- "I love you" to a human is in the Bible 0 times, (ok maybe one time and another if take the reason for doing something telling a person that)
- "love you" to a human is in the Bible 0 times
- "have loved" to human is in the Bible 3 times
- "I forgive you" is in the Bible 0 times
- "forgive you " to a human is in the Bible 0 times
- "forgive" in the Bible0 times referring to telling a person they are forgiven, but 67 otherwise
- "Thank you" to a human is in the Bible 0 times
- "you are welcome" is in the Bible 1 time
- "I am sorry" is in the Bible 0 times
- "Please" is in the Bible 112 times
- "Fear" is in the Bible 336
times. In Old Testament 258 times and in
new 78
- Love in Old Testament about
440 times and in New Testament about
158 times
- Most directed to God or Jesus, not to humans. If I am wrong, forgive me and please let me know, thanks. - One
minister said "back then" folks were not as touchy
feely as we are now and such feelings were expressed
in action (ie, Jesus on the cross); ok, I accept
that as a good way to reconcile the difference but
it still does not satisfy my questions.
- Same person said
"hard to say, really. For instance, in the Old
Testament Jonathan tells David he loves him - and scholars
think what that means is that he was pledging his total
loyalty to him, expressing his commitment to die for him
on the battlefield if need be. So when Jesus asks
Peter about love, he uses this odd word "agape," which
means a commitment to help those nobody else will
help. So is Jesus thinking of himself as somebody
nobody else will help? or is he really asking Peter about
feeding his sheep, caring for his people, especially those
nobody else would care for? and on
forgiveness, I can't think of any more radical forgiveness
than Jesus on the cross, asking God's forgiveness for the
soldiers who just executed him - and rather brutally"
- One famous minister said that there are many such references to this being said in the Bible but then did not provide examples.
- Another referred to Jesus on the cross when Jesus asked God to do the forgiving.Not sure God forgave them.
- A famous religious writer responded when I asked why did he think Jesus did not forgive Judas by saying there was never a Judas; it was just a reference to the Jewish people.
- Each Sunday we say that Jesus died for us, and that
"that proves God's love to us." Don't understand how that
proves it, but of course it does not say they love us
specifically.
- Another
well known author said (I added the reading to the
scripture references he gave plus my comment, what do you
think?)
"Well there are so many references I hardly know where to begin. I guess start with
- John
3.16--- God loves the world.
- 16"
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only
Son,[a] that whoever
believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
(God did not say the words to anyone here.)
- Secondly
look
at the Lord's prayer-- we ask God to forgive us as we
forgive others. (But God does not say he forgives us.)
- Thirdly,
there
is
Jesus'
teaching on forgiveness in Mt. 18.21-25.
- 21
Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often(A) will my
brother sin against me, and I forgive him?(B) As many
as seven times?" 22
Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven
times, but seventy times seven.[a] (again no one
is told they are forgiven.)
- Then
of course there is the famous woman caught in adultery
story Jn. 7.53-8.11.
-
John 8
1 but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2(A) Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him, and(B) he sat down and taught them. 3The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst 4they said to him, "Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. 5Now(C) in the Law Moses commanded us(D) to stone such women. So what do you say?" 6This they said(E) to test him,(F) that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. 7And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, (G) "Let him who is without sin among you(H) be the first to throw a stone at her." 8And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. 9But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. 10Jesus stood up and said to her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" 11She said, "No one, Lord." And Jesus said, (I) "Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on(J) sin no more." ( Jesus did not say he forgave her.) - Rom.
5.5 is an especially good example--- God poured his love
into our hearts.
-
Romans 5:5 (English Standard Version)
5 and(A) hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love(B) has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.(
- 1 John 4.16-21 is also a good one.
- 16 And so we know
and rely on the love God has for us. God is
love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in
him. 17 In
this way, love is made complete among us so that we will
have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this
world we are like him. 18 There is no fear in love. But
perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do
with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect
in love. 19
We love because he first loved us. 20 If
anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is
a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom
he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21 And he has
given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love
his brother.
- A "well know TV
preacher wrote a long letter saying: "Thank you
for taking the time to share your thoughts and questions
with xxxxx. It is a privilege to correspond with you. With
regard to your question, “Why do you think neither God
nor Jesus said ‘I love you’ or ‘I forgive you’ to
a person?” we would point to verses such as Matthew 9:2; Mark 2:5, 10:21, Luke
5:20i, 7:48; John 11:5, 36; 13:1, 23, 34, 15:9, 12;
17:23 and 21:25, where Jesus did tell people they were
loved or forgiven. We believe the most comprehensive way
to address your question is by sending relevant material
by xxxx. Please accept the resource listed on the
enclosed sheet as a gift from the ministry. We hope that
it will provide beneficial insight . .
We pray that the ministry of xxxx will serve you as a source of encouragement and spiritual growth in your walk of faith. May the very best of Gods blessings be yours. Prayerfully yours,(Below are the references:) - Matthew 9:2;
- 2 Some men brought to him a paralytic, lying on a mat. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, "Take heart, son; your sins are forgiven." (By whom?)
- Mark 2:5, 10:21,
- 5 When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, "Son, your sins are forgiven." (By whom?)
- 21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. "One thing you lack," he said. "Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
- Luke 5:20i, 7:48;
- 20 When Jesus saw their faith, he said, "Friend, your sins are forgiven." (By whom?)
- 48 Then Jesus said to her, "Your sins are forgiven."
- John 11:5, 36; 13:1, 23, 34, 15:9, 12; 17:23 and 21:25
- 5 Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.
- 36 Then the Jews said, "See how he loved him!"
- 1 It was just before the Passover Feast. Jesus knew that the time had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he now showed them the full extent of his love
- 23 One of them, the disciple whom Jesus loved, was reclining next to him.
- 34 "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another."
- 9 "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love."
- 12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.
- 23 "I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.
- 25 Jesus
did many other things as well. If every one of them were
written down, I suppose that even the whole world would
not have room for the books that would be written.
- Here is a reference I have found:
Isaiah 43:4 : Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you,I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.
- A friend found the following which comes closer than the famous folks above, I had not thought of using "have" before in the search:
- Love:
John 15:12 - My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.
John 15:9 - As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.
Ephesians 3:19 - and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Revelation 3:19 - Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest, and repent. - Forgive:
Colossians 3:13 - Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
Luke 5:20 - When Jesus saw their faith, he said, "Friend, your sins are forgiven."
John 8:11 - "No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin." - Here are some close ones using the past tense - what do you think:
- Jeremiah 31:3 - The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness. Jeremiah 31:2-4 (in Context) Jeremiah 31 (Whole Chapter)
- Malachi 1:2 - [ Jacob Loved, Esau Hated ] "I have loved you," says the LORD. "But you ask, 'How have you loved us?' "Was not Esau Jacob's brother?" the LORD says. "Yet I have loved Jacob, Malachi 1:1-3 (in Context) Malachi 1 (Whole Chapter)
- John 13:34 -"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.John 13:33-35 (in Context) John 13 (Whole Chapter)
- John 15:12 - My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. John 15:11-13 (in Context) John 15 (Whole Chapter)
- Revelation
3:9 - I will make those
who are of the synagogue of Satan, who claim to be Jews
though they are not, but are liars—I will make them come and
fall down at your feet and acknowledge that I have loved you. Revelation
3:8-10 (in Context) Revelation
3 (Whole Chapter) :
Bible Words Search
Words in the Bible - There is a lot of advice in the Bible about loving and forgiving, but few if any quotes that anyone said "I love you (or forgive you)" to a person/anyone else.
Why is this so - that no one in the Bible says "I love (or forgive) you" - when often we are told we are to tell others we love them and we forgive them. Perhaps that is the American way or some other code of ethics. (The term "have loved" is found 3 times, but not a present tense.) Maybe it is assumed that is what the Bible means for us to do and that is good, but the facts remain that there are not clear examples in the Bible. I am not saying we should not tell others we love them or forgive them or that we should not love or forgive them. I am saying the Bible is not an example of those feelings being expressed in words directly to any human being.
Surely in the thousands of years covered by the Bible someone would say these words and they would be significant enough to be quoted. Seems to me to be an important point as so many references to God and Jesus is about love and forgiveness.
Think of the power of Jesus forgiving Judas - what a concrete example of loving and forgiving an enemy that would be. What did Jesus do - he told Judas he would have been better off not to be born. That probably is true, but it can be said about a lot of us. Or if Jesus on the cross had forgiven instead of asking God to forgive. What powerful examples they would be. It is always easier to advise or ask someone to love and forgive than to say it or do it oneself.
- I have asked many people why they
think "I love you (or I forgive you)" to a human is not in
the Bible and here are some responses:
Below, watch the recent panel discussion on race and reconciliation, available from YouTube and part of a Lenten ,YouTube focus on forgiveness.To see the earlier program in the series click 